Everyone has their own fond memories of Christmas time; a time spent with loved ones, friends and family and a time for people to relax, unwind and enjoy the festive cheer.
I’m sure my own memories are similar to many others’. Nervous anticipation as a child the night before Santa came with his squadron of reindeer to deliver a stocking full of presents which were seemingly always exactly on the money – what a wise man he was. When I then learned thereafter that my mother had purposefully mis-spelt my name in a bid to dis spell any thoughts that it was my parents that were buying the presents, I had to applaud the creativity that she showed, for it certainly extended the Santa tradition for a year or two longer than when most kids my age found out that it wasn’t this magical bearded man traversing the nooks and crannies of the globe to deliver to children worldwide the gifts and toys they sought after. Surely my own mother couldn’t spell my name wrong? Santa had to be real!
I remember fondly sneaking down with my brothers and sisters to find out what Playstation games I’d received, or if I’d been good enough during the year to warrant the latest remote control car or Scalextric car set. The latter present was really a staple for any 9/10 year old boy at the time. It probably played some early part in establishing my neurotic competitiveness over games in general as I fought out with my brothers race after race.
Then into the teens it was the phase of early Skating-mania as I figured myself to be a buddy Tony Hawk. In all honesty, the £150 custom skateboard (state of the art at the time) was wasted expenditure on my parents’ behalf – bloody knees and sore ankles were the only by-product of the board, and my dreams of the X-Games alongside Tony and Bob Burnquist were short lived. Still, the imagination lived on as I gave every rendition of Tony Hawks Pro Skater the gaming time that they were surely due.
Of course, interspersed with all this were countless pairs of novelty socks and festive jumpers which, like so many other kids, I baulked at the thought of wearing. But it’s the thought that counts (or so I’m told).
As time went on and the novelty (or charade, for the eternal pessimists of this world) of Santa faded, I look forward to Christmas less now. This is likely due to the fact that I previously hadn’t a care in the world, life was stress-free from any real adult decisions, and I could count on Santa to execute my wish-list with 100% accuracy. Now, the real joy in Christmas lies in consumption of hearty meals to the point long past Gluttony, and I’m just as satisfied by sitting down with a cup of tea and a novel to read. How very mature and cultured I’ve become.
But as we get older, it’s no surprise that the focus of Christmas changes. It’s a fortnight or so spent catching up with old friends who we haven’t had the ability to spend meaningful time with, and a respite from the looming busy-period in work after the turn of the New Year. Giddy excitement has been replaced with serious conversations about “the future” and “promotion opportunities”. The 10-year old me would scoff at such a reality as he’d went square-eyed from 6 hours in front of his latest console.
In any case, Christmas is and always will be a lovely time of year to look forward to, for most. I myself try to be mindful of the fact that, while I’m in a very lucky position to have the material goods I like and in general don’t want for much, there are many others who simply can’t say the same. It’s important to give a thought or two to those less fortunate than ourselves. Charitable donations may just give you the satisfaction now that those presents many moons ago heralded.
I wish everyone reading this a Merry Christmas. Surprisingly, it’s pissing rain down here in Ireland. With morning Mass already visited, I can safely say I won’t be leaving the house, and that I will be testing the physical limits of my own human body with an examination of just how large my appetite currently is. Wouldn’t change it for the world. ~CMC